- Unabashedly favorable to sexual and freeing. A self-declared “audacious sexual liberationist,” Hartley supports assuming suggestive liability for your “sexual activities and expectations,” which is engaging, particularly on the off chance that you’ve managed negative social and social molding about how sex and sexuality should be.
- Encourages “know thyself” past mirrors and masturbation. We’ve all gotten the notorious proposal to “look in the mirror and identify with your vagina” work out, combined with “jerk off frequently” as the essential way to find your sexuality. There’s nothing amiss with this, nonetheless, the most impressive sex organ of all – your cerebrum – is overlooked. Hartley pushes past this accommodating yet moderately shallow guidance, and educates you to truly address your own sexual personality, as it’s “essential to building up a sensual connection with a viable other.”
- Organized, engaging and itemized. As an androgynous grown-up entertainer, Hartley in a real sense composes for a fact in a canny, genuine way that is peppered with individual tales and goes light on platitudes. Completely composed and nitty gritty, GTS is more than 350 pages, isolated into 18 parts that are separated and coordinated into 3 areas: Basics (counting climaxes, masturbation, foreplay, sexual positions and butt-centric sex), Extras (toys, swinging, trios), and Options (BDSM – and each letter gets its own section). Makes for an intriguing read – or end table adornment.
- Too much data for too broad a crowd of people. Despite the fact that Hartley’s book gives a phenomenal asset to general crowds, I favor particular peruses by and large. It may have been valuable for her to have three separate books-one book that is for tenderfoots and fledglings, another for transitional darlings, and put her extra unusual works in an altogether isolated book. A portion of the data is now and again excessively fundamental, and at others, excessively stunning, which, regardless of whether isolated can toss the peruser around.